Letting Go

May 20, 2011 at 3:40 pm (Uncategorized)

What can you do to help yourself let go of something?

What I am thinking of right now is letting go of mistakes from the past.

Each of us have made mistakes, some large, some small. What good does it do to hold onto those mistakes? How does that help you?

If we keep blaming and punishing ourselves, we only hurt OURSELVES! So what do we do? If you can, apologize to the person you hurt. They may or may not accept it, but it doesn’t matter. You might find that eventually they DO accept your apology. Maybe they just needed some time to think about it and come to terms with what you did. The fact that you did apologize could go a long way to mending the relationship if that is what you and the other person really want.

What matters most is that YOU have apologized for what you did.

Now you can stop agonizing over it and do the most important thing for yourself–MOVE ON!

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Starting Again

May 9, 2011 at 7:06 pm (Uncategorized)

Today is the first day of the rest of your life.  I heard that somewhere but I don’t know who said it.

Sounds like a very smart person to me, though.

Today you get to start over.  Yesterday is gone.  You can’t do anything about it, can’t change anything you did, or add anything you meant to do.

So, think of today as a clean slate.  What do you want to do?  Do you want to do something you didn’t have time to do yesterday?  Was it really that important?  If so, then why didn’t you do it?  Ah, life got in the way!

So today we get to start over.

I have always been a writer.  I don’t know if you can be born one or not, but if you can, than that is definitely me!  I always have had a LARGE imagination and was able to make up stories.  They didn’t always make sense, and I remember getting my characters into a mess that I couldn’t get them out of, but they were creative!

So, now . . .    What was Jinnean doing???

On to the rest of the day!

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